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How to politely ask for payment

Friendly first, firmer later. Wording you can copy, and the customer stays a customer.

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The short answer

How to politely ask for payment: assume they forgot, keep it short, and make paying easy. Say the job, the amount, the due date and how to pay. Send a friendly note first, a firmer one a week or two later, and call before you go further.

On this page
  1. How to politely ask for payment the first time
  2. How to ask a client for payment by text
  3. A friendly payment reminder you can copy
  4. When to get firmer
  5. Wording to avoid

How to politely ask for payment the first time

Most late payers aren't dodging you. The invoice got buried, or they meant to pay after the weekend. The first ask treats it that way: friendly, short, and with a link or a way to pay right there.

Send it a day or two after the due date, by the same channel you sent the invoice. Name the job so they don't have to look it up.

First ask, by email

Hi [name], hope the new [job] is working well. A quick note that the invoice for it, [amount], was due on [date]. Here's the link to pay: [link]. Thanks, [your name]

One job, one amount, one link.

How to ask a client for payment by text

A text gets read. Keep it to two lines and send it in business hours, from the number they know.

By text

Hi [name], it's [your name] at [shop]. Just a reminder the bill for the [job] is due. Here's the link to pay: [link]. Thanks!

A friendly payment reminder you can copy

If the first ask goes quiet, the second one stays warm but gets specific. Give a day.

A week later

Hi [name], following up on the invoice for the [job], [amount], now a week past due. Could you take care of it by [day]? The link is here: [link]. Let me know if anything's wrong with it.

When to get firmer

After two friendly notes, pick up the phone. A call clears up a lot: a lost invoice, a question about the work, a customer who needs to split it into two payments.

If the call doesn't settle it, put the next step in writing, calmly. Say what you'll do and when, and only say it if you'll do it.

  • Two to three weeks late. Call, ask if anything's wrong, offer to resend.
  • A month late. A firmer email with a date and the next step.
  • Past that. A final notice, then whatever your terms say, like a late fee or small claims.

Wording to avoid

The goal is to get paid and keep the customer. Skip "per my last email", "as you were already told", all capitals, and any threat you won't follow through on. Most late payers simply forgot, and a sharp note turns a slow payer into an unhappy one.

Better still, write the reminders once and have them drafted on time for every overdue invoice, getting firmer as it ages. You still read each one and send it.

By hand7 steps
  1. Check which invoices are late
  2. Work out how late each one is
  3. Decide how firm to be
  4. Write the note
  5. Find the pay link
  6. Send it
  7. Remember to check again next week

Every week, for every invoice that's late.

Set up onceWaiting on you

Two friendly notes, still unpaid. This one is a bit firmer. Send it?

Hi Dana, the invoice for the drain repair is now 3 weeks past due. Can you pay it this week? Here's the link again.

Friendly first, firmer over time. You read each one and send it.

See the overdue invoices job →

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Hi, just a friendly reminder that the bill for the job is due, here's the link to pay. Thanks!

Assume good faith: a short note with the amount, the due date and an easy way to pay.

Send the invoice right after the job, then a reminder near the due date. Make paying one click if you can.

Get paid without the awkward part.

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